There’s something truly magical about bringing out holiday decorations and reminiscing about the memories they hold. Each ornament, garland, and wreath tells a story, connecting us to seasons past. For families with a loved one who has dementia, this tradition can still bring joy, but it may require some adaptations. Here are ways to continue to enjoy holiday traditions with dementia to ensure an enjoyable experience for everyone involved:
- Keep It Simple and Manageable. When decorating with someone who has dementia, simplicity goes a long way. Overly elaborate setups can be overwhelming, so consider focusing on just a few key areas instead of the entire home. For example, a beautifully decorated living room or a festive entryway can be all you need to bring the holiday spirit indoors. Opt for decorations that are easy to handle, like pre-lit garlands, large ornaments, or unbreakable figurines. These choices make it easier for your family member to get involved without feeling overwhelmed by complex tasks. Plus, simpler decorations often mean fewer pieces to keep track of, which helps reduce confusion and stress for everyone.
- Incorporate Beloved Traditions. The holidays are rich in tradition, and including the person with dementia in familiar activities can be comforting and nostalgic. Reflect on the types of holiday activities they’ve enjoyed in the past. Maybe they loved hanging ornaments, baking seasonal treats, or setting out special decorations. Involving them in these traditions—even in a simplified form—can bring joy and a sense of purpose. While decorating, take the time to discuss the meaning behind each item. Share the memories connected to certain ornaments or decorations. Talking about the past can provide moments of joy, even if memories are fleeting. These shared stories bring warmth to the season and strengthen connections, making the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
- Focus on Safety. Decorating should be a safe and comfortable experience, especially for someone with dementia. Avoid any items that could pose a hazard, like fragile glass ornaments, sharp decorations, or items small enough to be a choking risk. For electrical decorations, make sure cords are safely out of the way to prevent tripping. You can create a cozy decorating station, where the person can sit and help organize or place ornaments without having to move around too much. Think about incorporating sensory-friendly decorations, such as soft fabrics, non-breakable pieces, or scented elements like pine or cinnamon. These can enhance the experience and help create a festive atmosphere without any safety risks.
- Be Patient and Flexible. Patience is key when decorating with someone who has dementia. Allow extra time and flexibility, knowing that they may tire or become confused. If that happens, take a break or shift to a different activity. Consider decorating over several short sessions, allowing them to participate at a comfortable pace. Remember, the goal is to enjoy each other’s company, not to have a perfectly decorated home.
- Celebrate the Little Moments. Embrace small victories, like hanging the first ornament or laughing over a favorite decoration. These moments can bring immense joy, and capturing them in photos can preserve them for later reflection. Celebrate these achievements as they happen, creating a sense of accomplishment and togetherness.
Building New Holiday Traditions
Even if the holidays look a little different, new traditions can be equally meaningful. CareFor is here to support your family during the holiday season and beyond, offering compassionate dementia care that prioritizes comfort and joy. Reach out to us at (512) 338-4533 to learn more about how our team can help make this season brighter for you and someone you love in Austin, Georgetown, San Marcos, or the surrounding areas.